Ep #50: Divorce Solutions With Ryan Davies | Becoming You Again Podcast
The divorce process is a scary, confusing journey. When we are faced with divorce we often don't know what to do, where to find help, what kind of help we'll need, who to trust, etc. Our mind can spin in confusion and indecision about the divorce which ends up shutting us down and keeping us stuck. On today's episode I'm talking with Ryan Davies, owning and founder of Utah Divorce Solutions, real estate agent and mortgage broker who works specifically with people going through divorce to help them get the best possible outcome when it comes to the home during a divorce. Ryan opens up about Utah Divorce Solutions, a website devoted specifically to the resources you need as you go through the divorce process. Ryan talks about why he started this organization and how beneficial it will be for people going through a divorce. Ryan also offers insight into many aspects of the divorce process from his perspective of working with many clients over the years. What you'll learn in this episode:
Who is Ryan Davies and why he started Utah Divorce Solutions.
The ins and outs of the real estate and mortgage aspects of divorce.
The possibility of moms to be able to keep the home, when you should keep the home and when you shouldn't.
The importance of understanding the financial side of divorce and how to use it to your benefit.
Helpful information on the division of property specifically when it comes to the real estate aspect of divorce and how having the right people on your side will create a win-win situation for you after divorce.
The one piece of advice Ryan would offer anyone going through a divorce.
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Full Episode Transcript:
Welcome back to Becoming You Again. I’m your host Karin Nelson. I’m a certified divorce confidence coach and this is the podcast where I teach you how to reconnect with yourself, create emotional resiliency and live a truly independent life, so you can have an even better life than when you were married.
Welcome back to the podcast my lovelies. I am so excited to be here today sharing this podcast with you because I think it’s one you’re really going to enjoy. So I have a guest joining me on today’s podcast for the first time ever which is momentous in and of itself, but I think what’s really exciting is the topic that I’m going to be talking about with my guest. So I met my guest, Ryan Davies, a while back in a Utah based divorce group that I’m a member of on Facebook and he is the admin of that group. He knew that I was a divorce coach and so he reached out to me to kind of have a conversation about how he is working in this space of divorce to help people who are going through a divorce through this organization that he started and through, you know, his daytime job where he is a real estate agent and a mortgage broker. So he asked me to jump on a zoom with him and we had a conversation and we have had several conversations since this first meeting, but I have learned a lot of about Ryan and how he is currently helping people. We talked about how he is showing up in these new ways to provide all of these services for his clients and provide free services as well through this organization that he has started. And I thought it would be some really good, helpful, useful information for my listeners because so many of you are going through this process and thinking where do I find the resources that I truly need when it comes to going through a divorce. So I invited Ryan to come on my podcast today to talk about these topics. We had a wonderful conversation and I really love what he is doing in the divorce scene to help people. Let me just give you a quick intro of Ryan and then we’re going to dive into our conversation and you guys can just listen to the whole thing.
Ryan Davies, he is the founder/owner of Utah Divorce Solutions dot org. He is a real estate broker, a mortgage broker that specializes in divorce as well as a real estate agent. He is married. He has four boys, a dog, a cat, six ducks and eight chickens and he lives in Salt Lake County in Utah. I am so excited for you to hear our conversation so without further ado, here you go.
Karin: Hi Ryan, thank you so much for being here with me today. We’ve talked a few times before recording this podcast together so I know a little bit about you and your story but I really want my listeners to get to know you a little better and understand where you’re coming from and why you do what you do. So can you share with us a little bit about your story and how that led you to where you are today?
Ryan: Yeah, happy to. So I actually went through the divorce myself about 10 years ago and definitely it was an interesting experience. At the time there was a lot of fears that I had, a lot of anxieties and over the years I have kind of learned of ways to help other people through that. So I have been in real estate for quite some time and I have found that there are a lot of gaps when it comes to real estate and mortgage and just the whole process with divorce when it comes to that so I like sharing that with people and helping guide them through that process.
Karin: Yeah. I think that’s so important because most of the people who listen to this podcast are women and I think that that is one of the biggest things that comes up is really not knowing what to do when it comes to the family home. Right? There are so many women who are stay-at-home moms or maybe they haven’t worked for a while or don’t have a job where they feel like they make as much money as their soon to be ex or their ex and they are worried about the whole financial possibility when it comes to their mortgage, the home, real estate and all of that and it is confusing and scary.
Ryan: Oh for sure.
Karin: Yeah. And we’ll talk about that in just a minute but I know one thing that you mentioned to me previously is you have kind of been open to this idea of starting a divorce solutions website where people can just come and get all of this information in one place because it’s not really something that is out there, at least in Utah it’s not a thing and so can you talk more about this organization that you are working on ending started.
Ryan: Yeah for sure. So Utah Divorce Solutions dot org, I’m actually the founder and owner of it. It’s something that I am currently building. We almost have the website done and then we are going to push it pretty heavy. So what it does, it pretty much connects individuals to the resources they need when they are going through their divorce, whether that be attorneys, mediators, real estate brokers, mortgage brokers, life insurance agents, pretty much every single person that they need throughout the process, coaches, such as yourself, and therapists. There are so many needs for trusted resources during the process. So we are building it out. It’s going to take a little bit of time to get things going but ultimately I have a pretty big vision on it. So what it will end up being is a place that people can go get the support they need through a support group that is attached to it as well as all the resources they need.
Karin: I love this so much. I have actually seen this kind of thing in other states because I myself have searched for something and we both live in Utah and so but I’ve seen in other